Just in case you do not get any or many replies to this request, I just want to let you know that the folks here at the DAZ forums are not a bunch of mean jerks ignoring you.
You indicate you are new to 3D and probably are not familiar with recent events here at DAZ’s forums… DAZ recently changed it’s website software and as a result there were a bunch of issues… one of which makes it “sightly” more difficult to find recently posted threads… as such, in a day or so your thread may not show up in an easy enough manner so people casually looking at the forums will notice it.
DAZ is probably going to fix it eventually, but at the moment they are having far more pressing issues with the afore mention website changeover and it is not a priority at the moment.
Its like after a flood… you sort of stop worrying if the carpet is wet and are just happy the tabletop is above water so you have somewhere to sleep.
In general the people who frequent these forums are very helpful (except for me, I’m quite obnoxious)...
That having been said and noting your statement about not knowing much about 3D modeling, I thought it would be to some degree “helpful” to point out that the nature of your request is a bit difficult… the creation of clothes for CGI figures is one of the most difficult modeling tasks around, and as such, the few good modelers who do make clothes tend to “have to” charge money for them due to the difficulty and number of hours involved… especially when it is of a specific type of clothing. There are many who do make free clothing, but often a request as such represents a great challenge and many hours of intense work, and usually it is not something a lot of freebie clothing modelers feel they wish to engage in. Its nothing personal, its just sort of like one person asking “could you build me a bike” and someone else asking “could you build me the Ferrari 458 Spider from the 2011 Frankfurt Motor Show”... there is almost that big a difference in what is involved.
I am a modeler and I have yet to tackle clothing (one because I have little interest in making clothes… heck, I hardly even wear em’) but I have experimented with the fundamentals and I can tell you- IT IS HARD.
I don’t want to discourage you or make you think you are being rude to ask, I just thought that in case you don’t get the sort of reply you are looking for there are a few possible reasons for it.
Also, I am sorry to hear of your loss and I am happy you have found someone who brings you joy again… good luck with your request and have a great wedding.
Edited to add– I didn’t think to ask this but:
1- It would also be helpful for others to know what software you own (DAZ Studio or Poser).
2- Also are you willing to buy a preexisting set of clothing if it is close to what you need?
3- If you don’t own or know how to use DAZ Studio (version 4-Pro is still free) and are hoping someone can also make a render (final image) for you, you should also state this.
4- It would be helpful to post an image or two of what the actual outfits look like, this way a person who may have the skills to make it or know of a similar preexisting out fit can help you.